You are so brave. Four words I hear so often now. I’m not going to lie to you; I don’t think I am. I know that when people say those four words to me they are simply expressing, in the only way they know how, that they don’t quite know how they would react if they were faced with the loss of their first born child. Let me ask you this though; what do you ordinarily do when life throws something your way that you weren’t anticipating? Something that is entirely out of your control. I can tell you now that you deal with it; you might not like it, but you face it head on. Why? Because you have to.